Friday, October 21, 2005

Not so great!

Had a not so great day yesterday. Found out Matthew very sick indeed now, not going to make it, being sent home next week. Not so great. Great actually for Matthew who gets to have a great party in heaven and speak with God, not so great for us who feel sad being left behind.

Went to see the surgeon, have to limp around for next three years (or so) until can't limp any more, then get new hip. Decided to become more acquainted with elbow crutch, so can limp for bit longer. Not so great also!

Went to the Champion Centre to set goals for next six months for Reuben. Actually the Champion centre is great and Mariana (OT) Maureen (Play therapist) Louise (Music therapist) Jenny (speech therapist) Jane (Psycologist) and Marie (Teacher aid) were all fantastic and we set great goals. Its just kinda sad to have to have all these people in one room talking about your child (who you love) and deciding what are goals that are appropriate and whether it is realistic for him to do this that and the other, when most other 3-4 year olds do all this stuff with out their parents realising it is a big deal.

Not so great!

At least we got them all done in one day. God is good.

2 comments:

ElizabethB said...

You are right, none of this is great but in the midst of it we still say, with you, that GOD IS GOOD.
In His goodness may He lead Matthew tenderly home and be the God of all comfort for his lovely wife and children.

Jo said...

Oh Deb, it is so sad about Matthew. I will be thinking about you and everyone involved and praying as well that the people around you have the right things to say and do.

Love you loads - Saturday was fun.